If you know your purpose to BE; is first serving the real needs of others, specifically the real needs of today's innocents, today's children and of all the innocents and children of the all tomorrows to come, before attempting to satisfy your own selfish and imagined wants, then you are alive in the truth of Love unconditional, serving Life's process and or God's will - depending your chosen faith and for one to care for and Love all that is Life your chosen faith should matter not!
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"Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They came through you but not from you and though they are with you yet they belong not to you."  ~ Khalil Gibran